Are You a Good Judge of Character? Here’s How to Find Out

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Are you a good judge of character?

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Oh, the age-old question: Are you the Sherlock Holmes of social interactions or more of a Watson, fumbling to decode people’s motives? Judging character isn’t just about sizing someone up during a three-minute latte-fueled conversation (although, we see you, coffee-shop philosophers). It’s a mix of intuition, observation, and a splash of life experience.

Let’s explore how to figure out if your character radar is spot-on—or in need of a tune-up.

Signs You’re a Stellar Judge of Character

1. Your Gut Rarely Lies to You
   You know that feeling? The subtle nudge that says, Hmm, something’s off about this person. If you’re good at listening to your intuition—and it’s been right more often than not—congratulations! Your gut might just be your superpower.
2. You Spot Red Flags Faster Than a Matador
   Manipulative behaviors? Check. Chronic flakiness? Spotted. If red flags light up like neon signs in your brain, you’re doing better than most. Judging character means spotting patterns that scream run away or give them a chance.
3. Empathy Is Your Middle Name
   Understanding people doesn’t mean just watching what they do but understanding why they do it. If you can step into someone’s shoes and still manage to keep your socks clean, you’ve got a rare skill.
4. You Trust, But Verify
   You’re not the overly suspicious type, but you also don’t hand over your Netflix password to the barista after one friendly exchange. Balance is key.

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How to Sharpen Your Character-Judging Skills

1. Observe, Don’t Assume
   Body language, tone of voice, and even the way someone interacts with others can speak volumes. Just because they say they’re reliable doesn’t mean their actions will agree.
2. Ask the Right Questions
   Good questions are like keys—they unlock the layers of a person’s personality. Keep it casual but insightful, like “What’s something you’re passionate about?” or “How do you usually spend your weekends?” You’ll learn more from their answers than you think.
3. Don’t Ignore the “Slow Burn” Friendships
   Some of the best people in your life might not dazzle you at first meeting. Give others the chance to reveal their true colors over time. Judging character isn’t a sprint; it’s a marathon.
4. Check Your Biases
   Sometimes, our own assumptions cloud our ability to see people clearly. Be aware of your prejudices and try to look beyond them.

What Does Being a Good Judge of Character Mean for You?

Ultimately, being a good judge of character can save you time, heartache, and even money (hello, avoiding that sketchy “business opportunity”). But it’s not about being perfect—it’s about learning from every interaction.

And hey, if you’ve misjudged someone before (because haven’t we all?), don’t beat yourself up. The real skill is in bouncing back, growing, and doing better next time.

So, what’s your take? Are you a human lie detector or more of a hopeful optimist? Drop your thoughts in the comments below, and let’s discuss the art (and occasional science) of judging character.

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Dorey Duncan Scott Senior Litigation Paralegal

Hi! I’m Dorey Duncan Scott, a mother of three, wife and fashion entrepreneur. I started my career in fashion back in the early 90’s when I did print, still and runway modeling. I studied Fashion Merchandising, Music Business and Marketing, while also obtaining certificates in such industry-necessary areas such as make-up, styling and runway choreography. In addition, I had work as a spokesmodel for several brands, appearing in print and in person. As a former model, turned senior litigation paralegal, artist manager and on-air personality with a passion for fashion, beauty, and personal development, I bring a unique combination of style, strategic thinking, and legal expertise to my work. My years navigating the legal world have sharpened my attention to detail, while my experience and passion for fashion, beauty, and personal development drives my desire to help others feel empowered and help them in their journey toward self-empowerment. My experience in the fashion world has taught me the power of confidence. 

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