Why I’m Giving Up on Perfect (And You Should Too)

Confession: I used to think “perfect” was the goal. The perfect outfit, the perfect meal, the perfect day… But chasing perfection feels a lot like chasing a pigeon in downtown Pittsburgh: exhausting, frustrating, and a little ridiculous.

Take today, for instance. I had grand plans—write a brilliant blog, nail every task, and somehow still end up looking like I stepped out of a Vogue shoot. Instead? My to-do list is laughing at me, my hair is in a bun held together by sheer determination, and here I am—typing this with a latte that’s gone cold.

But you know what? It’s fine. I’m learning to embrace the chaos, because perfect isn’t relatable. It’s the messy moments, the funny mistakes, and the “oops, I forgot to blog today” honesty that connects us.

So, here’s my new motto: Progress, not perfection. Let’s celebrate the effort, laugh at the missteps, and save “perfect” for airbrushed magazine covers.

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What about you? Are you ready to ditch perfect and embrace the beautiful messiness of life? Tell me in the comments—preferably while eating slightly burnt toast.

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Dorey Duncan Scott Senior Litigation Paralegal

Hi! I’m Dorey Duncan Scott, a mother of three, wife and fashion entrepreneur. I started my career in fashion back in the early 90’s when I did print, still and runway modeling. I studied Fashion Merchandising, Music Business and Marketing, while also obtaining certificates in such industry-necessary areas such as make-up, styling and runway choreography. In addition, I had work as a spokesmodel for several brands, appearing in print and in person. As a former model, turned senior litigation paralegal, artist manager and on-air personality with a passion for fashion, beauty, and personal development, I bring a unique combination of style, strategic thinking, and legal expertise to my work. My years navigating the legal world have sharpened my attention to detail, while my experience and passion for fashion, beauty, and personal development drives my desire to help others feel empowered and help them in their journey toward self-empowerment. My experience in the fashion world has taught me the power of confidence. 

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