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🪞Mirror Work Detox: Breaking the Loop of Self-Criticism and Reclaiming Your Reflection

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The content discusses the emotional struggle with self-image reflected in mirrors, urging a shift from self-criticism to self-acceptance. It encourages readers to reclaim their reflections through mirror work, transforming it into a sacred practice of self-affirmation and healing. The journey emphasized is about recognizing worth beyond appearance.

Lesson 7: When Starting Over Feels Like Giving Up

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Starting over may feel daunting and resemble failure, but it is actually a continuation of your journey shaped by experience, wisdom, and resilience. You are not beginning from scratch; instead, you are embarking on a new chapter. Reflect on what you carry forward as your story unfolds on your terms.

I’ve Worn More Hats Than a Paris Runway: My Job History (And Yes, Some Were Glittered)

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Dorey reflects on her eclectic career journey, starting as a babysitter and evolving into a music manager and senior litigation paralegal. Each role has shaped her resilience and creativity, culminating in their current position as founder of Voguegenics. She now empowers others through health coaching and creative endeavors, celebrating diverse experiences.

You’re Not Falling Apart. You’re Just Out of Buffering Space.

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The post highlights the limits of emotional capacity, comparing mental overload to a computer glitching. It emphasizes the need for brief moments of peace in a hectic world where constant demands can overwhelm us. Dorey encourages small resets and self-care practices like breathing and disconnecting to regain balance.

Do I Remember Life Before the Internet? Honey, I Survived It.

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Dorey reminisces about life before the internet, describing it as wild and distinct. She reflects on community connections, information gathering through libraries, and entertainment from limited TV channels. Though modern conveniences are appreciated, there's a lingering nostalgia for the unknown, social interactions, and simpler days of childhood freedom.

The Moon and the Meltdown: Why Every Crisis Feels Bigger at Night

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The post explores how emotions are intensified by the moon's phases, particularly at night. During the full moon, feelings peak, leading to existential crises, while the new moon brings subtle unrest. The author emphasizes the importance of acknowledging these feelings, suggesting rituals to cope and encouraging readers to track their emotional responses to lunar cycles.

Memorial Day Energy: I Want to Be Left Alone, But Also Feel Loved, Thanks

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Memorial Day, observed in the U.S. to honor military personnel, evokes mixed feelings of gratitude, grief, and social pressure. While many engage in cookouts, others reflect privately. It’s important to validate personal emotions, whether it’s opting out of festivities or finding comfort in solitary rituals, as no one way to honor the day exists.

What Am I Good At? (Besides Making Chaos Look Like Couture)

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Dorey reflects on personal strengths beyond traditional accolades, emphasizing resilience, empathy, and creativity. They articulate a talent for managing chaos while fostering connection, transforming pain into beauty, and creating meaningful content. The message encourages others to identify their unique abilities, underscoring the value of authenticity over recognition.

Lesson 5: When Life Keeps Breaking Your Heart

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Life can overwhelm us with multiple hardships—diagnoses, breakups, and losses—leaving no time to recover. In these moments, endurance is key; acknowledging pain doesn’t signify weakness. Today’s reflection encourages honoring emotional struggles without apology, prompting introspection on longstanding hurt and its needs, while offering tools for healing and support.

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