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Unfiltered musings, personal truths, and stream-of-consciousness moments. This is where vulnerability meets vibe—one post at a time.

🪞Mirror Work Detox: Breaking the Loop of Self-Criticism and Reclaiming Your Reflection

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The content discusses the emotional struggle with self-image reflected in mirrors, urging a shift from self-criticism to self-acceptance. It encourages readers to reclaim their reflections through mirror work, transforming it into a sacred practice of self-affirmation and healing. The journey emphasized is about recognizing worth beyond appearance.

The One Thing That Matters Most in a Friend (Spoiler: It’s Not Just Loyalty)

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Dorey emphasizes that the most valued quality in a friend is emotional availability, rather than traits like loyalty or honesty. This quality involves being present and supportive, especially during difficult times, without trying to "fix" things. Ultimately, emotionally available friends provide essential understanding and companionship, making them invaluable in times of need.

Lesson 7: When Starting Over Feels Like Giving Up

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Starting over may feel daunting and resemble failure, but it is actually a continuation of your journey shaped by experience, wisdom, and resilience. You are not beginning from scratch; instead, you are embarking on a new chapter. Reflect on what you carry forward as your story unfolds on your terms.

I’ve Worn More Hats Than a Paris Runway: My Job History (And Yes, Some Were Glittered)

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Dorey reflects on her eclectic career journey, starting as a babysitter and evolving into a music manager and senior litigation paralegal. Each role has shaped her resilience and creativity, culminating in their current position as founder of Voguegenics. She now empowers others through health coaching and creative endeavors, celebrating diverse experiences.

You’re Not Falling Apart. You’re Just Out of Buffering Space.

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The post highlights the limits of emotional capacity, comparing mental overload to a computer glitching. It emphasizes the need for brief moments of peace in a hectic world where constant demands can overwhelm us. Dorey encourages small resets and self-care practices like breathing and disconnecting to regain balance.

Confessions of a Voguegenics Devotee: What I Practice Religiously (Spoiler: It’s Not What You Think)

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Dorey humorously reflects on personal rituals rather than traditional religion, embracing what she calls the Voguegenics Way of Life™. This includes daily lattes, skincare, and quirky practices that promote self-care and inner peace. She emphasizes individuality over conversion while inviting others to join the Voguegenics community of personal style and wellness.

Lesson 6: When No One Sees How Hard You’re Trying

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The content highlights the unrecognized efforts people put into maintaining their lives, emphasizing the invisible struggles that often go unnoticed. It calls for self-recognition and appreciation for the quiet strength involved in everyday tasks, encouraging individuals to acknowledge their worth and the importance of their silent perseverance.

Cold-Proof Your Glow: Skincare Rituals That Thrive in Cold Places Like Greenland, Antarctica, and Your Frozen Office Cubicle

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Cold climates can severely damage the skin due to low humidity, wind, and indoor heating, leading to dryness and irritation. A solid skincare routine is essential, emphasizing gentle cleansing, layering products, and barrier repair. Remember to use SPF, even on cloudy days, to maintain skin health during harsh winter conditions.

Do I Remember Life Before the Internet? Honey, I Survived It.

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Dorey reminisces about life before the internet, describing it as wild and distinct. She reflects on community connections, information gathering through libraries, and entertainment from limited TV channels. Though modern conveniences are appreciated, there's a lingering nostalgia for the unknown, social interactions, and simpler days of childhood freedom.

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