Let’s Be Honest: Saying “No” Is a Superpower in Louboutin Heels

Daily writing prompt

How often do you say “no” to things that would interfere with your goals?

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Not nearly enough.
There, I said it. Cue the slow clap and the internal guilt parade.

Because here’s the truth: I used to be that girl. The one who said yes to the meeting that should’ve been an email. The lunch that turned into a therapy session I didn’t bill for. The “quick favor” that derailed my entire day and left me staring at my untouched to-do list like it personally betrayed me.

I said yes because I didn’t want to seem rude.
Because I could technically squeeze it in.
Because I didn’t want to miss out, offend anyone, or God forbid—seem selfish.

But do you know what’s truly selfish?
Letting your goals gather dust while you burn yourself out being everyone else’s emergency contact.

These days, I say “no” a lot more. Not because I’m cold or cruel or suddenly unavailable—but because my peace, my purpose, and my power have officially entered their main character era.

Saying “no” doesn’t make you a villain in someone else’s story. It makes you the author of your own. And baby, my plotline doesn’t have room for detours that don’t lead to glow-ups.

So no, I won’t jump on another Zoom for a “quick brainstorm.”
No, I won’t water myself down to make others comfortable.
And no, I will not apologize for protecting my damn sparkle.

Say it with me:
Find your glow. Embrace your power. Live Voguegenically.

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Dorey Duncan Scott Senior Litigation Paralegal

Hi! I’m Dorey Duncan Scott, a mother of three, wife and fashion entrepreneur. I started my career in fashion back in the early 90’s when I did print, still and runway modeling. I studied Fashion Merchandising, Music Business and Marketing, while also obtaining certificates in such industry-necessary areas such as make-up, styling and runway choreography. In addition, I had work as a spokesmodel for several brands, appearing in print and in person. As a former model, turned senior litigation paralegal, artist manager and on-air personality with a passion for fashion, beauty, and personal development, I bring a unique combination of style, strategic thinking, and legal expertise to my work. My years navigating the legal world have sharpened my attention to detail, while my experience and passion for fashion, beauty, and personal development drives my desire to help others feel empowered and help them in their journey toward self-empowerment. My experience in the fashion world has taught me the power of confidence. 

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