🚨 Bad day alert? Don’t spiral—reset!

We’ve all been there: the coffee spills, a work email sends your anxiety into orbit, or life’s chaos starts to make you feel like the universe is using you as its personal punching bag. Before you know it, you’re spiraling—despair, frustration, and a hint of freak-out mode set in. The good news? You have the power to stop the spiral and bring yourself back to a better place. Here’s how to pull yourself back from the brink, reset, and reclaim your day like the self-help superstar you are.

Step 1: Pause, Breathe, and Acknowledge

When you feel the panic rising, take a moment to pause. (Yes, you can spare 30 seconds!) Close your eyes, take three deep breaths in through your nose and out through your mouth. This isn’t about becoming a Zen master; it’s about slowing down the runaway train of your emotions.

Acknowledge what’s happening without judgment:

“I’m overwhelmed right now.”
“I’m feeling super frustrated.”
Simply naming the emotion gives you a sense of control over it.

Step 2: Ground Yourself in the Present

When your brain is racing toward worst-case scenarios, grounding techniques are your secret weapon. Try this:

The 5-4-3-2-1 Method:
- Look for 5 things you can see.
- Touch 4 things around you.
- Listen for 3 sounds.
- Smell 2 scents.
- Identify 1 thing you can taste.

These sensory cues help pull you out of the chaos in your mind and back to the present moment, where you can start regaining clarity.

Step 3: Reframe the Story You’re Telling Yourself

Most bad days are fueled by the stories we tell ourselves. “I’m failing,” “This is the worst,” or my personal favorite, “Why does everything bad happen to me?!”
Ask yourself:

Is this thought true?
Am I catastrophizing?
What’s one small, actionable thing I can do right now to make this better?

Reframing doesn’t mean ignoring your feelings—it’s about shifting your perspective to find the possibility in the problem.

Step 4: Move Your Body, Move Your Mind

When the mind is stuck, the body can help.

Take a brisk walk (even if it’s just around your office or living room).
Do some light stretches or shake out your hands like you’re flinging bad vibes into the universe.
Try a quick workout, even if it’s only 5 minutes of jumping jacks or a dance break to your favorite song.

Movement releases tension and resets your mental state.

Step 5: Use a Power Mantra

Words have power. Having a go-to mantra can anchor you when you feel untethered. Some ideas:

“This is temporary.”
“I’ve gotten through worse.”
“I am strong, capable, and resourceful.”

Repeat your mantra out loud, in your head, or write it down. Own it like you mean it. If you need help writing your own personal mantra, check out my blog post here.

Step 6: Shift Your Focus

Sometimes, the best way to reset is to focus on something that isn’t the problem. Take five minutes to:

Watch a funny video.
Pet your dog or cat.
Text a friend who always makes you laugh.
Write down three things you’re grateful for.

Gratitude and laughter are powerful antidotes to a spiraling mind.

Step 7: Plan Your Bounce-Back Strategy

Bad days happen, but they don’t have to define your week. Ask yourself:

What’s one small win I can aim for today?
What’s one kind thing I can do for myself right now?

Maybe it’s tackling one task on your to-do list, making your favorite tea, or even giving yourself permission to rest. Small wins build momentum.

Remember You Are Not Alone

We all have bad days, moments of despair, or times when it feels like life is too much. The trick is learning how to reach inside yourself, reset, and keep going. You are stronger, braver, and more resilient than you think. The next time the day feels like it’s going off the rails, try these steps, and remember: you’ve got this.