You Turned the Red Flag Into a Throw Blanket: A Hard Truth for Soft Hearts 🧣

Let’s be honest.
Some of us didn’t just ignore the red flags — we monogrammed them, wrapped ourselves up like a burrito, and called it “unconditional love.”
 
And now here we are. Cold. Confused. And suddenly realizing that maybe — just maybe — that walking contradiction with commitment issues wasn’t our twin flame after all.

💌 Today’s Viral Oracle™ Pull:

“The red flag wasn’t the problem. The fact that you turned it into a throw blanket is the problem.”

🎯 Why it hit different:

Because it’s true. And because most of us have tried to stitch together safety from the same chaos we swore we’d never allow again.

✨ But Here’s the Glow-Up:

Red flags aren’t just warnings.
They’re invitations.
To check your patterns.
To break the cycle.
To put down the scissors and stop tailoring yourself to fit someone else’s dysfunction.

💭 Ask Yourself:

• Am I romanticizing red flags because I fear being alone?
• What’s one boundary I’ve ignored because I didn’t want to be “too much”?
• If someone I loved were in this situation… what would I tell them?

🧘‍♀️ Journal This:

“What do I keep wrapping myself in that no longer serves me — but still feels like comfort?”

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