The Compliment That Changed Everything—And Why It Still Matters

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What was the best compliment you’ve received?

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There’s something about a well-placed compliment that sticks with you. Not the passing “I love your shoes” or “Your hair looks amazing today” (though, let’s be real, those are always nice). I’m talking about the kind of compliment that lingers in your mind long after it’s spoken—the kind that changes how you see yourself.

Over the years, I’ve been on the receiving end of many kind words. People have complimented my style, my work, my ability to juggle chaos with the illusion of grace. But there’s one compliment that stopped me in my tracks, one that made me really listen.

It happened during a conversation that felt more like a heart-to-heart than small talk. Someone looked at me and said, “You make people feel seen.”

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I was taken aback—not because I didn’t believe it, but because I had never thought about it in those terms. Sure, I strive to be a good listener. I try to show up for people, to make them feel important, to remind them that they matter. But hearing it put so plainly, so powerfully, made me pause.

And then, it hit me: Out of all the compliments a person could receive—about their looks, their intelligence, their achievements—this was the one that mattered the most to me. Because at the end of the day, isn’t that what we all want? To be seen. To be acknowledged in the fullness of who we are, flaws and all, and still be accepted.

The Power of a Meaningful Compliment

This experience made me rethink the way I give compliments, too. It’s easy to say, “I love your dress,” and move on. But a compliment that speaks to someone’s heart, to their character, to the way they impact the world? That’s a gift.

Think about it—what’s a compliment that truly moved you? Not just one that boosted your confidence for a moment but one that changed the way you saw yourself? Maybe someone told you that your laughter makes a room feel warmer. Or that your resilience inspired them to keep going. Or that you have a way of making people feel like they belong.

Those are the compliments that matter. Those are the words that last.

What’s the Best Compliment You’ve Ever Received?

So now, I’m turning the question over to you. What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received? Was it about your kindness? Your strength? Your ability to make people laugh?

And more importantly—when was the last time you gave someone that kind of compliment? Take a moment today to tell someone how they’ve impacted your life. You never know whose world you might change with just a few simple words.

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Dorey Duncan Scott Senior Litigation Paralegal

Hi! I’m Dorey Duncan Scott, a mother of three, wife and fashion entrepreneur. I started my career in fashion back in the early 90’s when I did print, still and runway modeling. I studied Fashion Merchandising, Music Business and Marketing, while also obtaining certificates in such industry-necessary areas such as make-up, styling and runway choreography. In addition, I had work as a spokesmodel for several brands, appearing in print and in person. As a former model, turned senior litigation paralegal, artist manager and on-air personality with a passion for fashion, beauty, and personal development, I bring a unique combination of style, strategic thinking, and legal expertise to my work. My years navigating the legal world have sharpened my attention to detail, while my experience and passion for fashion, beauty, and personal development drives my desire to help others feel empowered and help them in their journey toward self-empowerment. My experience in the fashion world has taught me the power of confidence. 

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